Just as an aside to that last post that I wrote-
I think that no matter what profession you're in- if you're a doctor, a garbage man, a teacher, or a stay-at-home parent, you're a flawed human and temptation will lurk. I think the kicker is KNOWING that and setting up appropriate boundaries. A good book that address that is "Sacred Marriage." Also, "Love & Respect."
okay, end rant.