Ok, so I've known about this blog since November or so, and I'm finally getting around to posting for the first time.... :) I'm Jamie, and my hubby Josh is in waiting to start rotations. We're from Milwaukee, WI, and we got married July 06, which one month later he left for his first semester of med school on Grand Cayman. We were separated 3 months, and when I graduated college in December, I was able to move there with him (which was AWESOME!!!). We had our own little place there together and made some great friends, but because his last semester was in Miami (and he'd only be there 3 months), I moved back in with his parents in Milwaukee to find a job. So we were separated for another 3 months. He came home for the summer and thought it was best to try and transfer schools, and was accepted to another Caribbean school, Ross University. He had to go back to Miami for 3 more months to basically re-do the semester he last took, so we were separated for another 3 months....
It has been incredibly trying on both of us. He has run into so many issues that we'd never imagined would be problems, and it's definatly a struggle to stay positive and supportive for him. It's especially trying to live with his parents and try to maintain a normal marriage with him, since I want to be the one cooking for him every night, but his mom is usually the one cooking for all of us. His parents are great people, but I absolutely cannot wait to have our own place again.
Right now he's back home again, and we were both hoping he'd be able to find a 2-year program to complete his rotations so I'd be able to move with him. We are waiting to find out what his school can get him. As of now it looks like we may be separated again, and I don't think I can go through that again. Any ideas how to stay strong for him and not have a complete meltdown? I trust God knows what He's doing with our lives, but it sure is hard to get through it sometimes.